At Death's Door: the Germs Strike Again

Germs. Nasty little creeps that everyone hates. We've all had to live with someone who got sick. My roommates and I get sick more than seems reasonable sometimes. But people handle getting sick differently. Some people (who may or may not be me) tend to get a little whinny and mope on the couch all day. Other people pretend to be fine, pop some ibuprofen, and push themselves to get through the day. But when your roommate gets sick, regardless of how they cope, there are a couple of things you can do to help them. AND there are easy steps to help keep yourself from catching the bug as well. 

Playing "Mom" (or dad) 

1. Offer to Pick Them Up Goods From the Store

This could be anything from Apple Juice to Chicken Noodle Soup. Just the other day, my roommate was hit with a hell of a cold, so myself and another roommate bought NyQuil for her so she didn't have to go out and get it herself. And then a couple days ago, I had a sore throat, and our fourth roommate was kind enough to pick me up some ice cream on his way home. Don't balk at doing a favor for someone. Odds are you'll need a favor one day too. Roommates give a little and take a little. But you'll only get as much as you give. 

2. Firmly Encourage Them to Take Care of Themselves

Some people hate medicine. Some people hate admitting they're too sick to leave the apartment. Other people just hate getting behind on work and don't know when to put the laptop down and just sleep (guilty again). If you notice your roommate isn't properly taking care of themselves, call them out. I can't tell you the number of times one of my roommates has glared at me for not eating well that day, or for not taking enough time to recoop after being sick. It might annoy people a little if you rag on them, but later on, they'll most likely be grateful you encouraged them to stay home and sleep it off. At the very least, at least they know you care.  

3. Be Accommodating to Their Needs

Being sick is miserable. ESPECIALLY when you're far away from home. So if they ask you to turn the music down cause they have a headache, or turn the AC on because they're burning up with fever, just do it. And don't make them feel bad for asking. I get it- we didn't go to college to play parent for someone else. But that doesn't excuse us from caring about the people we live our lives with, nor should it keep us from doing our best to care for them when they need it most. 

Keeping the Germs at Bay 

1. Be Pro-Active  

If someone is sick, for the love of all that is good in this world, do not get up in their face, share food/drinks, or cuddle on the couch. You're asking for it if you do. I mean, you're basically inviting germs to enter your body if you do that. Part of staying healthy is just being smart. It takes a little extra caution and a little more thought, but it'll pay off if you don't catch the death cold during finals week. Or in my apartment's reoccurring dilemma: tech week.   

(All you theater people out there say "amen".) 

2. Clean 

Seriously. If a roommate throws up, wipe down the bathroom with disinfect. Otherwise those germs are gonna attack somebody, no doubt. Doorknobs, sinks, and handles, are the main things that everyone touches. Wipe down the surface areas. It takes two minutes, but killing those germs is worth the time you'll save if you get a 48 hour flu. 

3. V.E.S

Vitamins. Eat. Sleep. Not too complicated. When your roomies are sick, you instantly become more susceptible to illness. You live in the same vicinity. The best thing you can do from an individual standpoint is to make sure you have enough vitamin C in your body (I recommend the gummy ones in the kids aisle), confirm that you're eating a nutritious and balanced diet, including WATER, and sleep at least 8 hours a night. If you know a soldier is going into battle, you don't throw him on the front line without a shield and a sword. You equip him to fight. Do the same for your body when its fighting off germs.